Last year around this time I started a reward points system for my kids. I was tired of being a nag and even more tired of listening to my children grumble about having to do simple things like cleaning up their toys or doing their homework. I also felt like they had reached an age where helping with some household chores should be a part of their daily routine. So during dinner one night last year I introduced my kids to the rewards points system, and it’s been amazing the difference this simple system has made!
Here’s how it works:
My kids can earn points for all sorts of things.
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They both really love to earn points and are always so thrilled when they’ve reached the magic number.
Once they’ve earned 20 points they have 3 options:
1. Pick a treasure from our treasure box.
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2. Earn $2.
or 3. Treat the family to a treat.
Letting them choose an option is so huge for them. They love having choices and being able to make their own decision. The bonus for me is that this has also helped to cut down on all the requests while we’re out shopping. And very often when I do happen to purchase that pack of Pokemon cards my son just “has to have” they are deposited into the treasure chest where he’ll have to earn them.
All in all the rewards points system has made a major improvement in attitudes around here and that makes me a happy momma. It’s a simple system for me to keep up with to as the tally sheet is right inside the medicine/cookbook cabinet in my kitchen, and I keep the treasure box hidden underneath my bed.
Do you use a reward system in your home?
Such a great idea! And, one that is easy to implement.