girl talk: beauty philosophy, skincare products and routines

Happy Friday friends!  I am so ready for the weekend!  I definitely have my work cut out for me; and I’m looking forward to a completely cleared weekend schedule so I can get things crossed off my list over here.  My bookcase project is turning into quite the time-sucking, energy-draining project.  I thought I was going to be able to scoot by with just two coats of paint, but nope I was wrong.  They’re going to need 3 COATS!  So don’t mind me, I’ll just be over here painting until the cows come home.  But it’ll be nice to have that project done before Thanksgiving, especially since my dining table is currently covered in books and accessories.
But enough with the whining about painting built-in bookcases #firstworldproblems, let’s switch gears for a bit and have a little girl talk today.  Let’s chat about skincare products.  I love learning about new products from my girlfriends, so I thought I’d share some of my favorites and then in the comments section down below I’d love for you to share yours!  It’ll be kind of like show and tell, but for grown-ups and with more telling than showing……or something like that.
But first, let’s have a little heart-to-heart about……..wrinkles.  Ladies, wrinkles are NOT a symptom of a disease called aging, no matter how hard the 114 billion dollar skincare industry pushes you to believe otherwise.  Your lines tell your story.  Whoever came up with the “anti-aging” marketing strategy needs to be smacked.  Why are we as a society anti aging?  We should be anti making billions of dollars from bullying women into thinking that only youthfulness is beautiful.  I could stay on that soapbox forever, but instead I’ll segue into talking about the products I love and use daily by leaving you with three names:  Annette Bening, Meryl Streep, Diane Keaton.  Drops the mic.
our fifth house - favorite skincare products
Picking it back up to chat about how I’ve fallen head over heels in love with the Acure Organics line of skincare products.  And no, this is not sponsored, but I’d be thrilled to be their spokesperson.  😉  Seeing as how your skin is the largest organ of your body I’m pretty passionate about staying away from chemically laden products.   Acure uses only the purest, most effective fair trade, natural and organic ingredients available.  And they don’t cost a million dollars, and you can buy them at Whole Foods, Target and of course, Amazon.  I’ve mentioned their argan oil on the blog before.  It’s still my absolute favorite skincare product!  It’s the one product I rave and rave about to all my gal pals.  It’s basically a big hug in liquid form for your skin.  Seriously.  Try it.  You’ll want to make out with it.
Here’s my AM and PM routine:
AM: 
I use the brightening facial scrub, then pat dry with a towel and spritz on the toner.  (I only use the scrub 3 to 4 days a week.  You don’t want to over exfoliate and irritate the skin.  Scrubs are not really made to be used daily unless your skin is super oily.  On the days I don’t use the scrub, I wash with luke warm water only  – no cleanser or anything, just plain water – and then spritz on the toner.   Then I use 1 to 2 pumps of argan oil  (a little goes a long way) mixed with frankincense essential oil (I prefer Young Living.  You can sign up here if you want.  Frankincense is great for the skin! ).  The argan oil does not leave your skin feeling oily at all, so long as you’re exfoliating your skin regulary it will sink right into your skin instantly leaving your skin feeling fantastic.  That’s all I do in the morning.  It takes maybe 5 minutes.  I’m all about a low maintenance routine in the morning.  I then jump right into my makeup routine.
PM: 
My pm routine is slightly longer because I think skincare and self care go hand in hand.  And I think every woman deserves to pamper themselves and their skin for a few minutes every day.  For me that pampering happens while my kids are taking their nightly showers.  I pop into my own bathroom and start my nighttime skincare routine.  I start by washing my makeup off with the cleansing gel and that little pink silicone facial scrubber you can see on the right in the photo above.  This cleansing gel is great as it completely removes my makeup, even eye makeup, without making my skin feel super dried out afterward.  The little pink silicone scrubber is really gentle and just helps to lather the cleansing gel and leaves my skin feeling super soft and smooth.  I’ve learned from a past life of working in skincare that exfoliation is absolutely key in getting the most out of your products.  People tend to focus on finding a really good moisturizer, but your moisturizer can’t do its job without good exfoliation.  After I wash I follow up with the toner.  Then I mix 1 to 2 pumps of argan oil with 2 drops of frankincense and 2 drops of lavender essential oil (because it soothes the skin) and massage that into my skin (don’t forget your necks- your necks need love too!).  Frankincense and lavender are both known for being wonderful for the skin, and they make my nighttime ritual feel like a spa treatment.  I follow that up with the night cream, and then end my routine by using the line eraser around my eyes and on my smile lines.  Lines look their best when they are well moisturized.  They don’t need to be erased, they just need some tender loving care.  😉  I’m also addicted to my Eos lip balm.
The Vitamin E oil I use occasionally when my skin is feeling really dry.  Like if I’ve been doing a lot of traveling (airplane travel sucks the moisture out of your skin big time) or during the winter months when my skin is need of a moisture boost.  The oil itself is a little sticky to the touch when you first apply it, but by morning you wake up with totally refreshed and well nourished skin.  It’s good stuff y’all!
I recently celebrated my 37th birthday.  I wouldn’t trade being 37 for all the unwrinkled skin on Earth.  I hope to see 37 more birthdays and to pick up a few more story lines along the way.
healthy skincare routine
So that’s what I’m stocking my bathroom cabinet with these days.  What are you lovely ladies using?
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  • Carmel, thank you for voicing what is only common sense. Yes we are being bullied by the cosmetics industry into thinking we need to spend a fortune and to deny our wisdom and experience. I have recently let my hair grow out and turn grey and I am loving it. No more chemicals for my hair. I believe I have earned each and every one of those silver beauties. Carmel you are a beauty inside as well as outside. Always stay true!

  • I've heard good things about their product line, and years ago I tried a few samples. Over the last few years I've become really picky about what I use on my skin, and I try to only use natural and organic products. Plus not being able to run to Target and grab what I need doesn't really work for the way I live. 😉

  • Carmel you totally turned me on to the Acure Argan oil last year and now my husband uses it too. We love it. I let it absorb into my skin while I do my hair and get dressed and then I come back to do makeup. I totally agree with you about lines being part of the gift of growing older. I was fine with them until an 11 took up residence between my brows. Those lines I could live without! �� Thanks for sharing products you love….love reading what others have success with!

  • Love this post! I am 47 and trying to embrace my lines. One of my favorite quotes…"With mirth and laughter let old wrinkles come." – William Shakespeare…helps me remember what life is all about and how important those lines really are!! That being said, I still want to take care of my skin. I have lots of sensitivities and have found that the Dr. Weil line in Origins works well for me. The Acure line sounds great…I may have to give it a try. I love the thought of being able to pick it up at Target.

  • Well you have certainly caught my interest. I am 75 with more than my share of wrinkles due to stupidly sun tanning too many years of my life. Since I had a small scare of squamous skin cancer on my chest almost 3 yrs. ago am not a sun lover anymore. (do enjoy floating on floaty at lake close to us tho altho that happens only about 1 time a year and do use 30 sun screen at least).
    Due to living in a too expensive area and having only my SS for income I don't have funds to buy Acure line all at once. Maybe I could buy one product a month till I have what I need. It's so good to find out about things that could help my skin. I do tend to have very dry sensitive skin on my face especially. I'll be checking this out next time we go to Target. Thanks for sharing some great info. Happy weekend

  • Perfect timing! I had a baby on Monday, and at the end of last week I was feeling huge and gross and wishing I had something awesome just for me to look forward to (other than my adorable new baby boy, of course!) once I came home from the hospital. I was in the market for changing up my skin care routine and decided to take your advice! I bought the Acure line at Target/online, and it was waiting for me when I got home! Such an awesome just-for-me treat to make recovery/breastfeeding/sleep deprivation not seem as bad 🙂 Thanks for sharing! I love how my skin feels already!

    <3 Alison from House, Home, Habitat

  • I'm curious about the Argan oil you're using. I also use argan oil but everything I've read about it warns against using argan oil packaged in either plastic or clear packaging because both plastic and light deteriorates the oil & is an indicator of low quality oil. I was told to only buy argan oil in dark glass bottles.
    Another tip I was given is to make sure you read the ingredients because some oils are labeled as argan oil but the argan oil is in a list of other oils & isn't even first. You want to make sure you're buying 100% argan oil with no other ingredients.
    Sounds like you're happy with what you're using but I just thought I'd share what info I was given.

  • Oh and I see the oil you use is 100%, i only mentioned that as info for others looking to buy argan oil. But I did see yours was in clear glass so I was concerned about that.

  • Yes super important to check the ingredients to make sure it's 100% argan oil. And I've heard the same thing about plastic bottles. The oil I use is in a glass bottle. I think it's fine if the bottle is clear glass so long as you store it in a cool, dark place. I keep mine in my medicine cabinet.

  • Hi Carmel!

    Thank you for this post. I've switched over to Acure, honestly because I was desperate to try anything to make my temperamental skin better. It is amazing the difference in my skin in just a month! I'm out of make up and need more. I'm interested to know the brands of foundation and mascara you use. I've had such good results from your Acure suggestions, I'd love to hear your makeup suggestions too! Thanks again.
    Kristina in KY

  • Carmel, you are amazing, thank you 🙂 You totally turned me on to the Acure Argan oil last year and now my husband uses it too. We love it. I let it absorb into my skin while I do my hair and get dressed and then I come back to do makeup.
    Thanks for sharing products you love….love reading what others have success with!

  • Hi Carmel! …… Well… you drew me in with an article on your dark bamboo wood floors ( which I have also) and yes .. I’m dealing with every speck showing and as life would have it I have long blonde hair hard to miss….. and now I find myself soaking up this latest article about skin care . YOU are the ONLY blogger that has caught my eye. I have been avoiding them like the plague. Mostly because of when I am trying to pin a recipe in Pinterest , it makes me insane trying to wade through pages of family info just to get the recipe! lol.. But you are a delight! Thank you for your insight and suggestions.

  • I’m glad I found your blog! I found it while on Maria Killiam’s. Talking about pink houses!! It’s so awesome!
    I was just finishing up the last of my products and was wondering what I’d do next! Would the Argon Oil infused with aroma be as beneficial? i love the scent of coconut and I see they have one. I have rosacea and don’t use exfoliators much unless it’s not gritty. I need a soothing treatment. I’m thinking the silicone pad may be too harsh. Not sure! I have a good cream to keep the redness at bay but need a regimen with a good moisturizer. I also use Young Living oils. I’m 59 but have very good genes. As for wrinkles….I earned them 🙂

  • Hi JoAnne! Thanks so much! I’m actually getting ready to do a new skincare post highlighting a few new products I’ve found and am loving. I’m currently using a wonderful exfoliator by Beautycounter – it’s their Nourishing Cream Exfoliator and it’s perfect for even the most sensitive skin. It uses non-abrasive jojoba beads and soothes the skin with coconut oil and aloe. My skin has never been more radiant!

  • At least there more sunscreen to choose from compare to 10 years ago where the only sunscreen that is supposed to protect me caused me clogged pores and more acne.

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