so I married a blogger – interview with the mr.

Hey
friends!  Happy Friday!  Today I’m participating in a fun blog hop
style series with an inspiring group of creative women…….and their
significant others.  In celebration of Valentine’s Day a group of us
bloggers have decided to gift burden our husbands with
an interview featured on our blogs for Valentine’s Day.  They were all
super thrilled with us.  ðŸ˜‰   Oh hey honey, I know you have a real job
and all…..but I need you to answer these 17 questions for my blog.
 Cool?  Okay, thanks, love you! 

So
without further adieu…….Let me formally introduce you all to Mr. Fifth
House.  Well, I guess he should now be referred to as Mr. Sixth House,
right?  His name is Brad……actually it’s Bradley, but only his mom and
mine call him that.  We met in 1998.  He’s 7 years my senior……a little
known fact I hardly ever let him forget…..I’m totally gracious like
that.  We got engaged in 1999 and married in 2000.  Round numbers make
it easy for him to remember how many years we’ve been married.  No
honey, it just feels like it’s been 30 years……this October we’ll
celebrate 16 years of wedded bliss.  

  



All
joking aside, he’s my favorite person.  I can’t imagine doing life
without him.  He doesn’t complete me; Jesus does…..but it’s nothing
short of an honor to be his wife.  He makes life an adventure in all the
best ways possible.




Huge thanks to Claire Brody for organizing this fun interview series and for coming up with all the questions!  



1.  How involved are you with Carmel’s blog?

I usually have an idea of what she is working on.  Not that she asks for my opinion.…..ever.  ;)

*Does this mean he wants me to ask for his opinion about blog stuff

2.  How often do you read the blog?  Are you an avid reader or do you see enough at home?  

Once a week…….but admittedly once I start I will usually read several posts and all the comments. 

*Surprised!  I didn‘t know he read that often!   
  

3.  How much time does Carmel spend on her blog?  What are her hours like?

She spends A LOT of time on it.  She will work most of the day while the kids are at school, then a little after they go to bed.  

4.  Are you the cheap manual labor or is there hired help for that?   In other words, does Carmel use you for your handy work?

I‘m HORRIBLE around the house, so it is seldom that she asks me.  On those rare occasions, it is almost always captured on film, like a bigfoot sighting. 

*Ha!  This is absolutely accurate!  The tools around here are mine.  He helps on occasion, but he’d rather poke his eye out than diy anything.  For the big stuff we hire out.  

5.  Describe Carmel’s style. 


Chic, but reserved, with a touch of whimsy. 


* I. am. speechless.  I‘ve never in my life heard him say the word whimsy.  I guess he really does read the blog weekly.  ;)

6.  Describe your style.  


A cross between Peter O’Toole, Steve McQueen.  Part dapper, part cowboy.  As if that were a thing. 

 
*Best description ever!  And pretty much spot on. 

7.  How often does your home change? 
 
It changes daily.  Like every. day.   


*Didn’t realize he noticed.  

 
 8.  How many different sofas have you had since marrying Carmel?

6?

*Actually, I think the correct answer is 9. 

9.  How often do you offer decorating advice?  Does she consider your opinion?

I offer it…….she considers it…….then does what she planned on doing before I offered it.  She thinks I need to leave the 60’s. 

*Ha!  That’s not totally true.  I just love a good mix of styles.  And what is it they say about a happy wife……..

 
10. What’s your favorite room in the house? Why?

My office.  It’s the perfect space for me.  Clean lines.  Heavy furniture. 

 


*His office in our fifth house was a favorite space of mine as well!  All of the same furniture moved into his office in the new house.  Though the room is hardly “finished” I‘m glad to hear he‘s already loving his space.  His office here won’t have those gorgeous floor to ceiling bookcases, so it’s going to be a little different design wise but still led by what he loves most – 60’s inspired design details. 

 
11. What does it really look like behind the camera?

She is an exquisite homemaker.  She keeps a very clean house.  Not that it’s always clean, but she is usually working to get it back to clean (2 kids, 2 dogs, me). 

*Exquisite?  Someone’s trying to earn brownie points. 
 
 12.  What is a project you hate but have never voiced (or maybe you have)?


I don‘t have one.  Even the REALLY feminine projects (pink bathroom in house 5) have ended up looking great. 

 



*Again with the brownie points

 
13. Do you know Carmel’s blogger friends? If so, who’s your favorite?

I know of a couple.  Freckleschick is my fave.  😉 

*Uh, not sure what that winking smile is all about, but she’s a favorite of mine as well.  🙂  
 
14. What’s your favorite aspect of Carmel being a blogger?  Least favorite?

I like that our house is fun, changing and always looks well designed.  My least favorite is reading GOMI and reading derogatory opinions of the sweetest person I know from people that have never met her, but it‘s kind of hilarious at the same time that they care that much

*This was the only answer of his I considered editing.  For one thing some of y’all may not even know what GOMI is, and second I hate to give any traffic to a site that is primarily dedicated to gossiping and trash talking bloggers.  But editing my husband’s remarks felt disingenuous.  And if that truly is his least favorite part of me being a blogger, than I feel like I should honor his feelings instead of editing them

GOMI stands for get off my internets.  In the forums section of the site people basically post all sorts of less than kind words.  I get it, my style isn‘t for everyone.  That being said, not all of the comments about my blog over there are mean and ugly.  Some comments, like when a few people complained about not receiving a response to emails, were a wake up call to get some of the behind the scenes office stuff ironed out so that I could do a better job of replying to emails in a more timely fashion.  I think it’s sweet that my husband takes offense, but I‘m a big girl.  And I think any business owner or really anyone with a presence on social media for that matter has to be prepared to hear and handle negative feedback.   
 

15. What are your household chores?

Garbage, feeding the dogs, groceries, getting the kids ready in the morning if I’m home

*He’s also on Turkey duty every year.  Though I‘m not sure that counts as a chore. 


16. What‘s something about Carmel that her readers might not know (but she would be ok with you sharing)?

She is the only person I know that has never had a bad thing to say about another person. 

* And again with the brownie points…….Will someone please remind him he already bought the cow?  😉   Something about me y’all might not know (heck, the hubs might not know this) is that when I was in high school I decorated my bedroom with a Mickey Mouse theme…..complete with vintage Mickey posters, a Mickey quilt on my bed and even a Mickey Mouse phone.  DO. NOT.  JUDGE.  Now you understand why I get so pumped about a Disney trip.  
 

17. What does Carmel REALLY want for Valentine’s Day? And what are you getting her?

I‘m not sure what she WANTS, she‘s getting a romantic trip to San Antonio whether she likes it or not. 

*Well, someone found his bossy pants.  I’ll take it!  Especially after I gifted him this coffee mug for Valentine’s Day last year.  😉 
 

 
 So that concludes the Q & A over here!  Big thanks to my hub for taking time out of his busy work week to answer a few silly questions for me.  Now head on over to these lovely ladies‘ blogs to read what their handsome hubbies had to say.  Cheers to Valentine’s Day weekend friends! 



The Makerista





*Pictures of the office by Sarah Grashel Photography 


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  • I love reading these post! I have always admired your "whimsy" style but reading what you hubby has to say about your sweet personality makes me that more fond of you! Enjoy San Antonio, we lived there for 4 years while my honey was in the Air Force and I delivered both of my kids there. Special place to us! Happy Friday ~Sonya (at home with the barkers)

  • OK, not only has my husband never used the word exquisite, he would never use it in anything relating to me, so Mr. 5th & 6th House should get more than brownie points, make that man some brownies! And judging from the coat in the kitchen and the pan the turkey is in, can I conclude he's a grilling machine? At least that's how turkey season looks at our house. Otherwise why the helll is he wearing a coat in the kitchen by a beautifully browned bird?

  • Wow!! I'm speechless that he knows the word "whimsy," too!! Loved it 🙂 Also, does he remind anyone else of a more sophisticated Ryan Reynolds? Just saying.

  • That coffee mug is awesome! And I loved the a bigfoot sighting comment and it made me think of when I filmed my husband when he actually vacuumed which never really happens unless I have a melt down once a year 😉

  • This was an awesome post; I love how his love and admiration shines through�� And his willingness to do this. San Antonio is so fun. My brother and sis in law live there.

  • Carmel,thank you for sharing such lovely facts about you and your hubby. I am tempted to comebup with a similar list for my husband and I to answer. Keep on doing what you love Carmel, and stay true to your style and self. You will enjoy the romantic trip to San Antonio, it is my former hometown.

  • Myself, I don't really like the term 'brownie points'. It's obvious he loves and admires you, and likes what you do…no points involved! The fact that he uses the words 'whimsy' and 'exquisite' just proves he has more class and style than either Peter O'Toole OR Steve McQueen combined! Wait…it IS them combined! lol! Enjoyed this blog a lot, and you know you are one lucky lady….but then, he knows he is pretty lucky too and seems proud to say so! Have a blast in San Antonio!

  • This was super sweet. I've been a blog reader for a long time but tbh your response to gomi took my liking to you to the next level. It's not a nice site but to take something from it and make it positive shows what a nice person you are!! 🙂

  • Great post, Carmel! You guys compliment each other so well!
    Brad, since you're reading :), do you purchase your own clothes or does Carmel do the shopping for you? Either way, what is your go-to store for your style?

  • I do all of my own shopping. And honestly, way too much of it. I spend. She saves. She's my counterbalance. She has never dressed me. Although I have dressed, (and undressed), her. Sorry for going pg-13…my closet was and may still be bigger than hers. In fairness, I dress 5 days a week and she doesn't have to. But she gets my style. Bow tie, knit tie, western, whatever. She gets me. She doesn't get enough credit, as I'm pretty much impossible and she is pretty much the opposite. But you know what they say…opposites attract. How does a gorgeous Latina end up with a fair to middling Scotsman? Don't know but I'll take it. 😉

  • Thanks Laurie! I don't think anyone gets better if they only ever hear or acknowledge praise. Some things said over there are just plain mean, but there are some things said over there that I've found to be constructive. I'm confident and comfortable with who I am which makes it easier to decipher between the mean and the helpful comments I've read there.

  • He answered below……maybe I should start monitoring comments. 😉 Yes, he shops for himself. He's a JCrew, Banana Republic kind of guy……he also likes to buy his suits from small local men's clothing shops. I've been telling him for years that he should start a men's fashion blog – or go into personal shopping. Most men have no clue and could use a little help. 😉

  • I came upon your blog after reading this same q and a on another's page and I have to say, I am happy i did! Your writing (and your husband's) is so witty and feels genuine. AND your spaces are fantastic! You have a new fan!

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