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Design Dilemma – How to Choose a Kitchen BackSplash

Jessie, who recently moved into a new home, wrote in asking for help in choosing a backsplash tile for her gorgeous, new kitchen.  Help with selecting a kitchen backsplash has been a common question from readers over the years.  It seems to be one of those kitchen details where a lot of people struggle with indecision.

Before we dive in to addressing how to go about selecting tile for a kitchen backsplash,  let’s all pause to drool over Jessie’s beautiful kitchen!

design dilemma - choosing a backsplash tile

There’s already so much good happening in this space from the contrasting island and custom range hood to the copper metallic accents!

design dilemma - backsplash tile

The Dilemma

While Jessie knows what she likes design-wise, she’s struggling to nail down a backsplash tile.  She wants to find a tile that will coordinate well with both the granite countertops and the off-white cabinets.  She’s not really sure how to tackle the selection process as there are so many variables in play.

A backsplash is one of those finishing details with huge visual impact in a kitchen.  I don’t necessarily think there’s a right or wrong way to go about it; as design like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  But hopefully this post will help you to feel more confident in making a selection.

Your Kitchen’s Design Personality

First and foremost, I think it’s important to take a step back and look at your kitchen as one whole statement.  Rather than focusing on the color of your cabinets or countertop and trying to find a tile to coordinate, look at the big picture and figure out what you want your kitchen’s personality to be.  Are you going for a fun, happy space?  Or do you want your kitchen to feel modern, sleek and industrial?  Everything in the kitchen doesn’t necessarily need to fit a specific design style, but it’s important to nail down what the overall vibe is that you’re going for in the space.

For example, a stainless steel subway tile will bring in an industrial vibe whereas a classic off-white subway tile that matches the cabinet color would be a classic, timeless look that makes the overall design lean towards more of a modern-farmhouse feel.

backsplash options

Supporting Role or Main Player

Once you’ve nailed down your kitchen’s design personality it will make it easier to narrow down your tile options.  Now you’re ready to make the next decision, which is do you want your tile to be a main player or do you want it to have more of a supporting role?  Basically, is the backsplash the design element you want to take center stage or would you rather that it blend in and act as a compliment to the other elements in your kitchen.

Main Player

design dilemma - how to choose a backsplash tile

(as seen on Fixer Upper, Design by Joanne Gaines via HGTV photo by Rachel Whyte)

Supporting Role  design dilemma - backsplash tile

design dilemma - backsplash tile

(The TomKat Studio)

In Jessie’s case, a patterned tile could be really fun and add even more personality to the space.  Her design style feels lively and inviting, and a patterned tile would definitely add to that vibe.

how to choose a backsplash

Patterned tile is really making a comeback, but it does require some design commitment.  It’s a bold choice, but one that pays major dividends in the individuality of your home.

Although a more subdued tile choice that blends in a bit with the kitchen cabinets and the countertops could be just as beautiful. A simple cream or off-white colored subway or mosaic tile would finish off the space nicely and act as a nice compliment to the hood and copper island lights.  Supporting elements don’t have to be boring.  Just because they allow other design elements to really shine doesn’t mean they can’t be cool and interesting.  A cream glass subway tile would add some nice shine and reflection, blend in nicely with the off-white cabinets and allow that gorgeous hood to stand out even more.  Glass tile would also be a nice change from the traditional ceramic but would still be a timeless choice.

how to choose a backsplash

 (Walker Zanger  patterned tiles – cream glass subway, matte biscuit subway mosaicbutter cream mosaic)

Is There a Right or Wrong Choice?

Honestly, there really isn’t.  So long as you choose a tile that coordinates with the palette of colors in your kitchen, you really can’t go wrong.  It’s truly about going with your gut and choosing what looks best to you.

While subway tile is still a bit trendy, it’s a classic style that works with any design style.  In going with either a glass tile or a smaller matte version you get something a little different than the norm thought it’s still timeless.   Both of the patterned tile options would be stunners and would coordinate really nicely with the other elements in the space.

What backsplash option would you choose?  Or would you recommend something completely different?

 backsplash choices

 If you have a design dilemma and you’d like some help brainstorming ideas, shoot me an email at Carmel@ourfifthhouse.com with “design dilemma” in the subject line.

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  • I looooove #1 that you found – pulls in all of the accent colors so nicely! Second choice is the subway mosaic.

  • For Jessie’s kitchen, I think I’d go with the first option you chose. It’s dramatic but not super in your face since the colors seem muted. She has a beautiful home!

  • I would stick with the classic subway style…that way if she chooses to change up her accent colors in the future, the backsplash will still match.

  • I love both one and two but I think two would be my choice. I tend to get bored quickly, and although I love color I like the flexibility of changing it when I feel like it. Number one would lock me into a permanent color more. Number 2 picks up the color in the counters and beautiful copper lights and would add a wonderful texture to her walls, and from the photo it looks like she is a fan of texture. Can’t wait to see it finished! Her home is beautiful.

  • Number 1 is beautiful but the “aqua” is a commitment. Right now if she tires of that color, she can easily swap out her stools and ottoman for something else. But a tile back splash is trickier to replace.

    If she chooses #1 that will tell me that she has confidence that she will love that color for a long time. (And I will be a little bit envious that she doesn’t find herself wanting to swap her colors out as often as I do. LOL.) It will be a great choice!

    I would also love to see #2 in the room. For me, it gives the same vibe as #1. But it matches the elements of the kitchen that aren’t likely to get swapped out soon, e.g., the cabinets, counter tops and floors. That way, regardless of what color stools or accessories she brings in, it will look like it belongs in that kitchen.

    Good luck to her! Her home is beautiful! And I would love to see the final result!!

  • I would choose #2. It gives the area a bit of punch without the commitment of the aqua.
    I’m sure any of these would be beautiful though!

  • I’m debating the direction I want my kitchen to go, too, and am so drawn to that beautiful patterned tile! I’ve been afraid to commit, but every time I see it I love it. I think that’s all I need to know.

  • I think if you have a busy granite countertop, your pattern quota has been used. Go with a cream or off white subway tile that matches your cabinets.. It’s not as busy so the counters get the attention. A classic look.

  • I did a major rehab of my kitchen last year (replaced original 1950 cabinets, counters) and opened it up to the dining/living room . For the backsplash I decided to go with…are you ready …NO BACKSPLASH because I felt the space was good as it was, it blended well with the dining room and an added backsplash would add to the busy-ness. I made this choice knowing the my friends who live in Europe (Ireland, Scotland, the Czech Republic) don’t have backsplashes and they figure this is just another thing Americans do to spend money! In reality, I have been living with the kitchen for a year now, and have only wiped the wall behind the stove a few times (and I cook every sing l night). It is only paint, so that can always be redone easily, and I can change the color if I want. I do have a small backsplash in the area directly behind my sink, but otherwise- just plain old painted wall!

  • I have corian countertops with a 4″ trim piece and no backsplash. I’m worried about removing it – how would it look to have a backsplash that doesn’t meet the counter at the corner?

  • #1 definitely. Even though it has blue, it’s not so bright as to likely clash with other colors should she choose to change up the rest of her color scheme down the road. I think it’s just the liveliness that kitchen needs and would definitely tell visitors “This is a fun and happy home!”

  • What do you think about handmade mosaic as a kitchen backsplash? On mosaic, you can`t see drops and soap as bad as you see it on walls or bigger tiles (i must say that bigger tiles are also a good solution).
    With this in mind, you will have more troubles purchasing more grout and harder installation.

  • I like that you mentioned that you should decide whether or not your tile should be the main player in your kitchen. My wife and I really like the idea of having our backsplash be the defining feature of our kitchen. We will have to look into some patterned tile to see if it will work with our kitchen.

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