with a grateful heart

Yesterday was a blur.  
There was so much to do.
So many errands to run. 
So many things to cross off my list. 
thanksgiving tree
Let me back up a bit and tell you – I was already a little disgruntled when the day began. 
I already had so much on my plate and was looking forward to getting it all done before the kids got out of school because my kids are off Wednesday to next Monday – which is code for if it’s not done before they get out of school on Tuesday, it’s not going to get done. 
But, I got an email from my daughter’s teacher late Monday afternoon letting me know that she was having a Thanksgiving Feast for the kids and she would love for me to come in and help out.  
But, I had sooooo many things to do!  
Why couldn’t she have let me know sooner!  
Does she think I’m just sitting at home doing nothing all day  – with all kinds of free time on my hands – that I can just drop everything at a moment’s notice to come into the classroom and help her?!  
And what exactly is she planning to feed these kids for this “Thanksgiving Feast”?  My girl is gluten free.  She probably won’t even be able to eat much of the food that is being served.  And I really don’t have time to make her something special on such late notice.  
Like I said, I was disgruntled. 
thanksgiving tree
But I went in. 
I was a little late. 
But I was there. 
Still bothered and slightly annoyed I walked into the classroom expecting to see my girl sitting there with sad eyes because she couldn’t eat much of the food.  I was expecting to walk in and tell her not to be sad because I would take her somewhere special for an after school snack to make up for the fact that she didn’t get to eat any of the food. 
Except I didn’t have to do that. 
My girl’s teacher had provided a completely gluten free meal for all of the kids!  Everything was gluten free – it was all safe for my girl to eat.  She didn’t have to eat different food from everyone else.  She was eating the same thing everyone else was eating.   And she was so happy.  
I got a little teary-eyed and did my very best to fight back the lump in my throat – because at that point I really just wanted to cry like a baby.  
thanksgiving tree
I had been such an ingrate. 
My attitude about the whole thing was so horribly pitiful. 
I wanted to kick myself. 
Running around like a crazy woman trying to get everything crossed off my list so that we could have “the perfect” Thanksgiving…………………………………………..but our Thanksgiving is already perfect.  It doesn’t matter if I get all the craft supplies put away so that I can set a pretty table.  It doesn’t matter if I make a breakfast casserole the night before or if I don’t have time to bake multiple desserts; what makes Thanksgiving perfect is simply having a grateful heart.    
A classroom full of happy second graders and a teacher that went out of her way to make them all feel included, special and loved   – that’s something to be grateful for. 
thanksgiving tree
Yesterday was the best blur of a day I’ve had in a long time.  My cup runneth over…….but sometimes I need to be reminded.
I wish you all a very warm and Happy Thanksgiving!  
(*I shared the simple instructions for these Thanksgiving Trees over at The Chic Site.)

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  • I love this! It's so easy to get caught up in the rushing around and looking ahead at what has to be done rather than looking at what we already have. How awesome of that teacher 🙂

    And I totally will have to do that Thanksgiving Tree next year!

  • How amazing is your daughter's teacher?! Love this. Thanks for sharing. It's something we all do – running around and tyring to get everything perfect…but then we need to take a step back, take a deep breath and take in all of the ways we are blessed. I need to do this today. 🙂 Happy Thanksgiving!!

  • What an awesome teacher. I love the Thanksgiving tree. We used to have one in our playroom, just to remind us to appreciate the little things in our lives

  • I agree with the comment above about writing the teacher a nice note or even a sweet email. I was a teacher before staying home with my little ones and that would have been something that would have made my day! Isn't God good?!
    Thank you for sharing and have a great Thanksgiving!

    ~Stephanie

  • Thanks for sharing Carmel. We have ALL been there. I've been there this week as well. Despite telling the moms of the little ones I teach on Wednesday mornings to "slow down and enjoy the moment". Guess I need to take my own advice. Having a child who is GF, and teaching many with allergies, I know how much you and your daughter appreciated the teacher's efforts to the extra mile to be sure all are included. And I agree, a sweet thank you note will let her know just how much you and your daughter appreciated it!!

  • wow- we all have moments like that in our life, and when we "do the right thing" we always feel better after…. you went in and did the right thing and wow, you were blown away. what an amazing and thoughtful teacher you have. 🙂 what what an amazing mom you are to go in when you have a million other things you need to do, or just wanted the one day to NOT have to do anything!

  • My stupid phone! I posted a comment on here this morning and it didn't go through. Anyway, your post made me teary eyed. I love teachers that go the extra mile to make all their kiddos feel included. Thanks for sharing this.

  • What an amazing teacher! I often have to step back & remind myself to be grateful, especially in this day & age of oversharing via social media. I'm far too blessed in so many ways, I need to remember that.

  • This blog made me cry. And as I'm sitting here crying, my 12-year-old daughter walks in and gives me a funny look. So I tell her about your story and now the two of us are sitting here crying. Kindness…. It always gets to me.
    Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
    xo Bets

  • Thank you for reminding me that it's the little things that make this life of ours precious and wonderful. Happy Thanksgiving to you. May it be blessed with more little moments and miracles.

  • Your post brought tears to my eyes, not only because of the rush, rush, rushing that goes along with each holiday, all the while missing the big picture, but also because my son has a food allergy. The times that he can be fully included mean more to him (and me) than most people can imagine. Happy Thanksgiving.

  • Happy Thanksgiving! What a nice post. It's true, we miss the most important things when we try to "create" the moment instead of living in it. What an awesome teacher your daughter has.

  • I can Identify with your feelings. Asa 10 yr old my dd became an type 1 diabetic. It was so hard to see her at parties where everything seemed to be full of sugar. That is special teacher to remember the needs of your daughter. As buszy as parents are she is a mother also with her family needs. Your daughter is so lucky to have her as a teacher!! I would like her a special note but also the principal to let him/her know how the teacher went out of her way to make your child feel apart of the class activities.

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